You Weren’t Meant to Just Get Through the Day.
You were meant to lead it—with clarity, energy, and purpose.
Ray
For 55 years, I followed the script. Do what you’re told. Build the career. Climb the ladder. Raise the kids. Smile for the pictures. From the outside, it looked like I had everything—vacations, a country club membership, financial comfort, and a reputation for success. But inside, I was running on autopilot, asking silent questions no one else seemed to be asking: Is this it? Why does success feel so empty? I wasn’t failing. I just wasn’t fulfilled. Walking away from the career I built wasn’t easy. But it was necessary. I stopped chasing what wasn’t mine and discovered what had always been waiting within me. That shift wasn’t just external. It was personal. I stopped performing. Stopped pretending. Stopped shaving to look the part. I stopped wearing the tie—and started living the truth. For over 25 years, I’ve been helping others make that same shift—from living out expectations to leading with intention. Whether they’re executives, entrepreneurs, or people quietly questioning the life they’ve built, the pattern is the same: most of us are untapped. That’s where my work begins. I’m the author of Start with Stop, a book that challenges readers to question their assumptions, drop what’s no longer serving them, and lead from the inside out. I’m also the creator of Within: Leading From the Inside, a leadership experience built for people who are ready to stop managing the performance—and start owning their purpose. My approach doesn’t hand out formulas. It creates space for clarity. Because the truth is: we don’t need more how-to’s. We need more why-not-you’s. Every stage I step on, every coaching session I lead, every conversation I hold—I bring that energy. I don’t talk about becoming perfect. I talk about becoming real. Because when people reconnect with who they are, they stop performing and start living. And that’s when everything changes.
Learn how to stop chasing and start choosing.
Redefine success on your terms.
Reclaim time, clarity, and confidence—without the burnout.
It's not just about learning leadership - it's about STOPPING ineffective leadership habits and STARTING a new, more impactful way of leading.
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Inside-out approach – Build self-awareness before leading others.
Challenge the myths – Recognize and stop ineffective leadership habits.
Real-world application – Assessments, challenges, and actionable strategies that reinforce learning.
Proven frameworks - Learn and apply TERA, GROW Coaching, SBI Feedback, Eisenhower Matrix, 5 Whys and others.
The Start with Stop perspective – Integrated insights that challenge conventional thinking and reframe leadership from influence to impact.
90-day leadership plan - Ensure long-term growth with structured self-accountability and checkpoints.
This isn't "War and Peace", you could read it in just one sitting, but this book reminded me of "The Art of War" in its depth.
Jon Spiesman
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