You Weren’t Meant to Just Get Through the Day.
You were meant to lead it—with clarity, energy, and purpose.
If you’ve ever felt like there’s more in you than what life is asking of you, you’re not broken. You’re just untapped. Let’s change that - by stopping what’s not working and unlocking what’s already there.
Meet
Ray
For 36 years, I followed the script - built a thriving career in insurance, climbed ladders, checked boxes. From the outside, I had it all. Inside, I was running on autopilot, asking silent questions no one else seemed to be asking. Is this it? Why does success feel so empty? What if I’m meant for something more - not just more stuff, but more meaning? Walking away wasn’t easy. But it was necessary. I stopped chasing what wasn’t mine, and I discovered what was always waiting within me. Now, I help others do the same. Not by giving them answers, but by asking the right questions that unlock their own. If you're ready to lead from clarity, not chaos, let’s talk.
Why this book?
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about clarity. It’s about creating a life you’re excited to wake up to—not one you’re just surviving.
For the high performer who’s tired of grinding. For the leader who’s lost their spark. For the person who knows there’s more inside—they just haven’t figured out how to access it.
Learn how to stop chasing and start choosing.
Redefine success on your terms.
Reclaim time, clarity, and confidence—without the burnout.
Why this course?
Most leadership development courses are outdated. Just the same material, recycled and regurgitated.
Are you ready to start moving the needle? Try something different. Try something new. Try Within: Leading From the Inside.
It's not just about learning leadership - it's about STOPPING ineffective leadership habits and STARTING a new, more impactful way of leading.
Ready to lead differently?
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
Inside-out approach – Build self-awareness before leading others.
Challenge the myths – Recognize and stop ineffective leadership habits.
Real-world application – Assessments, challenges, and actionable strategies that reinforce learning.
Proven frameworks - Learn and apply TERA, GROW Coaching, SBI Feedback, Eisenhower Matrix, 5 Whys and others.
The Start with Stop perspective – Integrated insights that challenge conventional thinking and reframe leadership from influence to impact.
90-day leadership plan - Ensure long-term growth with structured self-accountability and checkpoints.
The hard truth? Most people are all talk, no action. They dream but never execute.
Break the cycle. Purchase this course and change your relationship with leadership forever.
Raving Fans
Unlike many offerings, this book starts with looking at helping you assess what ineffective things should STOP. If you can relate to an area that isn't working, Ray then offers better options so that you might replace bad with better, despairing with hopeful, or stuck with progress.
This isn't "War and Peace", you could read it in just one sitting, but this book reminded me of "The Art of War" in its depth.
Jon Spiesman
Amazon Review
Ray Gage’s thoughtful take on sixteen common mistakes is anything but common. This is not your typical self-help book. It offers generational wisdom, making this a book for anyone at any life stage.
Start with Stop is a book I wish I had to help navigate the last six decades of my life.
This is certain… I’ll be buying copies for our friends, children, and grandchildren.
Paul Daniels
Amazon Review
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